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Resolutions

No one does well with resolutions and I am, of course, no different. I have a trail of half-completed post drafts to attest to the strength of my willpower. Nevertheless, this year I am attempting resolutions yet again, but I’ve

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Consent

The rate at which the sexual assaults of men in positions of power are coming to light seems to be increasing. Victims coming forth with their stories are giving strength to other victims, and modern methods of communication both offer

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Let the Punishment Fit the Crime

There is a certain art to deciding just what will happen to your kid(s) when they get in trouble. It’s difficult to get right but if your hope is to have your kids listen to you and to respond to

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The Enemy of Good

It’s been a long time. There are reasons. I am busy with the boys. I am also lazy with some things and easily distracted always. I also was not inspired. I don’t mean that I was waiting to be struck by

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Sturm und Drang

I’m going to try and take another tack for this post about tantrums. The others all lost steam for me, perhaps because I wrote them in too close a proximity to an actual tantrum. They ended up feeling like a

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Night Terrors

I’m pretty sure Joshua has night terrors [see note below for addendum!]. It’s as fun as it sounds. This has happened to us a smattering of times, but a recent event really settled it that this must be what’s going

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Full Dad

I’ve referenced it recently, but Joshua got sick not too long ago. As I was carrying him around, he was resting his head on my shoulder and began to throw up all over the place. I like to think I’m

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Playing Dumb

Joshua loves to ask the same question over and over again. Dozens of times. Over many days. I’m not sure why it is. He has an excellent memory and will regularly bring up small details about events that happened as

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The Sticker Chart

So Joshua is a generally well-behaved kid. He’s prone to have either full-blown or miniature tantrums on a sort of regular basis, but that’s almost always either because he needs more sleep or is having something he expected changed on

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Maybe They’re Just Hungry

We had a strange afternoon with Joshua the other day. He had a great morning — good listening, good mood, all that stuff. He had a great day at school — got a sticker for both his morning and afternoon

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